When do you randomly get sad/depressed?

[~SnowAngel~]

I just find it odd how I can be bouncing off the walls one minute, and then getting sad for no reason the next. X_X
What do you think causes this???

 

[nawi]

hmm......maybe you are hungry

 

[~SnowAngel~]

hmm......maybe you are hungry

That has nothing to do with it..

 

[nawi]

an omen maybe?

 

[~SnowAngel~]

It's more like a collective thing that I could never express no matter how much I wish for it to just go away. X_X

 

[nawi]

hmm...undescribable feelings..yes i have experienced that too long ago...

 

[~SnowAngel~]

hmm...undescribable feelings..yes i have experienced that too long ago...

The more I try to figure them out, the worse it gets :z I don't like dealing with them this way, but not worrying about them will make it disappear for a while. It can be for a few hours or a few weeks x_x. The biggest problem is that they can easily be brought up depending on what people say to me :/

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Ehh bipolar? Though you dont seem to have that :x

 

[~SnowAngel~]

Ehh bipolar? Though you dont seem to have that :x

I never mentioned being bipolar X_X I'm just sooo emotionally fragile I have no way to help myself X_X

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Emotionally fragile... well everyone is quite fragile if you break through their defenses :x Maybe you need to stop caring so much? <-- Different from completely ignoring...

 

[~SnowAngel~]

Emotionally fragile... well everyone is quite fragile if you break through their defenses :x Maybe you need to stop caring so much? <-- Different from completely ignoring...

That's almost like saying to force myself to become someone I'm not. I naturally care about people.. that's why I'm going to be a counselor. :/

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm well people change when needed.. if you feel that this emotional fluctuation is a very negative thing then you would need to take action somehow... if not then i suppose youre fine...

 

[renano]

You're probably not the only one feeling like that, Ushio.

How you grew up and perceive situations reflects the outcome of what you determine to be emotional or seem like you're bouncing one second, but feel different later.

Perhaps a little relaxation or change of perspective may help.

This is not to change your overall views in life, but to clear your mind a bit and see things with fresher eyes.

Still, just remember that what you're feeling is fine. It may feel or appear bothering or uneasy at times. However, try to look at the little things you do. Perhaps they contribute more to the big picture of your emotions instead.

 

[~SnowAngel~]

You're probably not the only one feeling like that, Ushio.

Still, just remember that what you're feeling is fine. It may feel or appear bothering or uneasy at times. However, try to look at the little things you do. Perhaps they contribute more to the big picture of your emotions instead.

They pretty much do pile up.. hence the bizarre mix that I can't describe :/ I sometimes use poetry to get past them, but mostly when I can identify something wrong. Reading through some of my poetry, you can almost tell when I'm calming down. XD
I have been to a counselor before, and she simply made me think deeper in places that I thought I didn't have to deal with anymore. (in a good way). One thing she said was that there seems to be a theme of rejection in my life.. I've been wanting to deal with that for a while, but haven't been able to. X_X The best thing I did for now was ask friends where they could see that, and listen to what they think rather than what I think. (I use to be so negative >.<) to give you an idea, even a simple acquaintance that forgets about me comes off as rejection to me :/ Even though I know it's not true, I can't get rid of the feelings X_X

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm well some people like to emphasize stuff... do you really dislike rejection? how would you define rejection?

 

[Decalcomania]

When playing a nakige, or when an anime I really like ends with no possibilities of a sequel or another season.

 

[egozi44]

I feel like that alot....

also have alot to say about this matter, but the problem is that it really alot :\
can't find words atm


P.S nice new avatar [MENTION=18465]renano[/MENTION]

how you knew that i like Ririchiyo

 

[~SnowAngel~]

OMG X_X_X_X_ >.< I think I hurt my friend saying I'd play somewhere with her but then I decided to go somewhere else and she said she had to leave X_X. This totally makes me feel like a jerk
I really hope she doesn't hate me X_X

Hmm well some people like to emphasize stuff... do you really dislike rejection? how would you define rejection?

I'd say it's like either when I hurt someone or someone hurts me X_X_X cuz then I feel bad until I know everyone's fine. But right now's it's not fine >.<

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm... i would say to just ask if you hurt her... if you did then apologize and if she says you didnt then its fine... might just be worrying too much :x Friends would probably understand... unless this happens a lot or something...

 

[~SnowAngel~]

Hmm... i would say to just ask if you hurt her... if you did then apologize and if she says you didnt then its fine... might just be worrying too much :x Friends would probably understand... unless this happens a lot or something...

noo It's all fine now~ We later played online again and talked like nothing ever happened ^^
Just wait til I have another crisis XD

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm ok then~ I guess its all fine~ Too much worrying xD

 

[dannyh]

I apology for this immature reply, but when I saw the "latest posts," there's the answer for those who get sad/depressed.

Right underneath of
"When do you randomly get sad/depressed?"

"[LPW#35] Get Your Perv On"

Tis the answer..."Get Your Perv On!" to blast those blues away!!

 

[stardice]

It happens to me sometimes too....a min being happy and another being suddenly sad...I think it's because I used up all my energy to be toooo happy or otherwise was trying to be happy and it doesnt really work or draw any attention....I think it's like a bolloon when someone stick a needle in and then suddenly become flattern.

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm attention... i suppose that being happy is also about showing others that youre happy... otherwise the emotion wouldnt do much xD

 

[dannyh]

To answer the main question, I guess I feel low when I have nothing to do...just witnessing how the clock ticks.
Once I have a busy schedule then there's no time for me to feel sad. Usually I feel cheerful under a tight schedule {<---he's mad} since I get to experience different jobs, people, places, etc.
Sure, it's tiring and sometimes frustrating, but it's just part of life. [At least that's what I think]

Can't be happy all the time, right?

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