I only know two Manga where the eye-gouging happens, one is Mushoku Tensei (although there the girl does not gouge out her own eye and just replaces the gouged out eye with one of her magical eyes), the other one being Arata Kangatari, where the Antagonist has his eye gouged out, only to be replaced by the eye of the man who gouged his eye out (I don't remember his name but afaik he was the Shou of the earth).

These are probably not the manga you're looking for, but it's amazing to know that there are at least 3 manga with eye gouging + replacing happening.