Otome or BL which is better

otome ofc. bl is...tolerable if it is a smut....

Both genres are fine! I used to fanatize being a fujoshi, but I think as I get older, I lean more toward otome because... I need some love too y'know.

I think both are good if done right.
For example I want to play the part of the seme in BL games, problem is there are far too little BL games that do that.

Same for Otome, I want to play the part of a woman who is a dom/top, y'know a pegger or futa that penetrates the males, but that is never the case typically, instead the woman is a boring bottom, if I wanted that I would just play hentai games, let's be real here...