Hentai vs real Sex. My rant.

[Will98]

Sir,

Please refrain from trying to start something with another member. Please go some other place to vent or fight.

 

[Paladinoras]

Err, I'd never watch hentai anime to get inspiration for real life banging, if that's what you mean. As they say, porn logic, isn't good logic.

 

[Nurranurra]

Sir,

Please refrain from trying to start something with another member. Please go some other place to vent or fight.

My apologies. I just wanted shut some smarty pants up. I really didn't mean it.

 

[Callidus]

Well frankly I can't speak from experience

I think you can balance b/w the two of them

If you enjoy hentai more it's alright as long as you don't spill it to your partner

 

[Telsa]

I am the other way around. I have been cheated on in all of my Serious Relationships over the last 10 years, and i find that has effected my Interest in Hentai.

I now LOVE NTR and if that is not twisted i dont know what is. But i only get off on the fantasy in Hentai, i do not, can not, and will not enjoy the same thing in real life, but i know it happening to me so many times in real life has started something dark inside.

Aint that just about a bitch?

 

[sprucefir]

I should admit sometimes I'm imagining scene that I could get from hentai anime or eroge when I have a sex with my gf. But I think I should draw borderline between hentai and real sex. Hentai such from anime, manga, or eroge are become one of my hobbies and sometimes I use the reasonable position as reference but that's all and real sex it the one that happen in your real life with someone you love or ticking your interest but never mix them up... at least that's my opinion

 

[delriogrande92]

I was wondering the same thing, sometimes henti sex looks much better than real sex to me... but this is coming from a virgin...

 

[teko2009]

you guys forget one thing that represent the reason that formed what we call hentia
the reason is simple in which there is exaggerated sexual imagination so you can not mix the both
you can sex positions and stuff like that i mean sexual knowledge which does not clash with the real life
since we are humans but still we have our animal lust for sex but that was for making babies since if you ever asked your self if we humans will ever make sex if there is no lust programmed in our heads i will say 90-95% of humans will not have sex
and the others may use their brains that that act is only for there survival

and about the part that women may be want more romance and stuff that you can not support i can say this also apply for us since there are cases where we want women to act in way when she is tired so we have to think that your love should not just physical lust but to care for your partner as you love her soul and that is the reason you are attracted to her

 

[metalliko]

real sex of course, but if you said hentai vs porn : Hentai for sure :)

 

[Dante1712]

I prefer hentai, the girl's moans turns me on... :D:P;)

 

[xXPsychoKittyDXx]

I'm 30, I've been in 2 serious relationships filled with love, dated a handful of women throughout my life and have enjoyed anime since my very first taste of hentai back in the 90's with a PC game called Metal & Lace...a hentai game that didn't even have sex.

Whats more harrowing is the connection of sex with my partners vs growing up with hentai.

I crave sex with a real women as any healthy male would, but have always found it to be more akin to physical (though stimulating) exercise vs anything I've "experienced" in my imagination of what sex should be like...based on hentai. Yes hentai.

So how can this be? Can imagination be better then the real physical touch of your partner?

For me I believe the answer can partly be found in the fact that I was exposed to hentai when I was developing sexually as a pre-teen and (AND not understanding a line of japanese) my mind would create a cerebral imaginative sexual experiences that "real life" would never be able to live up to from a combination of perfect artistic visuals and imagination.

That said, I've been disappointed with hentai many - MANY times. I've put hours into a game only to come to a point where the story went into a direction I hate, left me wanting or felt completely missed an amazing erotic direction I had expected it CLEARLY was going before completely dropping the ball.

So whats my point? I love hentai and I hate hentai. Its ironically made the real thing better and I've taken ideas (positions, situations, ideas, ect) from hentai and added them to my real life sexual repertoire - with positive results - especially and IRONICALLY more so for my female partners...making me wonder if physically, women get more stimulation overall from sex then men do...but that's another topic...

Still I can thank hentai for expanding my mind in the bedroom...

Ironically (and has hard as this might be to believe) playing hentai has developed me to become a better judge of character when I meet females...because ironically (at a very base level) humans ARE easily categorized like anime character archetypes.

I'm a little older now then I was ten years ago, a little wiser. I know that one cannot replace the other but as I get older hentai has only aged for the better. Can I say the same about my age group?

Is hentai here to stay for me? Oh yeah...and yet I don't like picturing myself sitting at home playing hentai games 10 years from now...or god 20 years from now. It just seems wrong in some way until I realize I certainly won't be alone considering all the men in Japan that already do or will.

Still its made me realize that as you grow older...well growing old sucks and in so many new ways ever few year lol.

One thing I`d like to add was how powerful love and intimacy is in the making love - which can make those real carnal moments more enjoyable to - something I never learned from hentai but real life.

As for sex vs. hentai...well maybe I just haven't met the right girl with the right sexual chemistry yet.

Or maybe its all just in my imagination ;)

maybe you just have to separate the two things: sex and hentai as completely different things so you can resist the urge to compare, both things good in their own way, but completely different things. i mean most people wouldn't enjoy being "raped" by a tentacle monster in real life, or having sex for 2 days straight without stopping or some other fantasy scenario that happens in hentai, but that's the beauty of it, in a way. stuff can be enjoyable to see in a fantasy setting that wouldn't necessarily be pleasurable in real life, and real life has a perk of being physical contact (and three dimensional), which is something that no image could replicate or bring to life~

 

[axtc]

my mind would create a cerebral imaginative sexual experiences that "real life" would never be able to live up to from a combination of perfect artistic visuals and imagination.

And I think this idea of diving deeper into one's own fantasy world being so much more appealing than reality is why people do it in the first place.

Like those who marry their favourite fictional characters. You know, like that dude who married an avatar on his Nintendo DS.


But getting back to the quoted statement, I completely agree with that as I enjoy the artistry of it. Except for ecchi scenes in anime or the softcore hentai manga/drama, not hentai videos.

 

[Killer cell]

I would prefer Hentai ! rather than real sex. it prevents unwanted pregnancy

 

[axtc]

I would prefer Hentai ! rather than real sex. it prevents unwanted pregnancy

While that's true, hentai only stimulates two of your senses. Real sex stimulates all five.

To advance my previous post, real sex + your personal fetish played out stimulates all 5 senses plus that fantasy you have, however freakishly dirty it may be.

 

[Piyoko]

I am Just Imagine How is Fell to have sex T.T
All i can do is watching hentai .............

Ah.. I Really want to do that, but i cant do that ....

 

[Ren Nanase]

Real sex is pretty boring for me so i tend to prefer hentai. Unless the real sex involves a fetish like water sports etc or just being plain kinky i would rather watch hentai

 

[Piyoko]

Real sex is pretty boring for me so i tend to prefer hentai. Unless the real sex involves a fetish like water sports etc or just being plain kinky i would rather watch hentai

But I Think Without Real sex we will never existed.
And sometimes I Been Thinking about becoming a Parents~
We must have to do that T.T

But i am not ready yet..

 

[jerry.]

I mean, I've had a lot of ideas I got from hentai (or elsewhere) that no partner has agreed to try in bed, except for a leash treatment. If I could choose my imagination of sex over sex in reality, my imagination's a lot more fun.

 

[Greenoceandrop]

The one is Porn, the other one is sex with a partner. Imagination though is a great part of sex too, especially for women, but imagination without the physical stimulation is missing something, so sex with a partner will always be superior to just porn. Of course you can have bad sex, but that doesn't mean that imagination alone is better.

I think my flatmate is dead, his alarm clock goes on and on, very annoying.

 

[Joyjason]

Unless someone mentioned already, and it wasn't clear enough for everyone, it's a given that "hentai" is not real.
The moaning and the "series of orgasms" is false, and unlike the massive amount of HCG drawn by hundreds of artists, semen doesn't squirt out of the female reproductive system nor does it enter the uterus immediately.

Don't think of hentai and actual sex to be the same... because it's really not.
One is made to exaggerate the mental pleasure, and that exaggeration has now become your standard--hence, you can feel unfulfilled with your "normal sex".

Don't believe me? Go grab some ecstasy from a drug dealer--only if you have the balls to do it.

 

[Ren Nanase]

Unless someone mentioned already, and it wasn't clear enough for everyone, it's a given that "hentai" is not real.
The moaning and the "series of orgasms" is false, and unlike the massive amount of HCG drawn by hundreds of artists, semen doesn't squirt out of the female reproductive system nor does it enter the uterus immediately.

Don't think of hentai and actual sex to be the same... because it's really not.
One is made to exaggerate the mental pleasure, and that exaggeration has now become your standard--hence, you can feel unfulfilled with your "normal sex".

Don't believe me? Go grab some ecstasy from a drug dealer--only if you have the balls to do it.

I do agree that hentai is really exaggerated which is why i tend to watch it without sound from the moaning etc.
I know the standard of sex change but for me i am not that good of looking and i enjoy fetishes which is why i have to pay to get my enjoyment since no girl wants to be with someone as blah as me lol.

 

[jerry.]

Unless someone mentioned already, and it wasn't clear enough for everyone, it's a given that "hentai" is not real.
The moaning and the "series of orgasms" is false, and unlike the massive amount of HCG drawn by hundreds of artists, semen doesn't squirt out of the female reproductive system nor does it enter the uterus immediately.

Don't think of hentai and actual sex to be the same... because it's really not.
One is made to exaggerate the mental pleasure, and that exaggeration has now become your standard--hence, you can feel unfulfilled with your "normal sex".

Don't believe me? Go grab some ecstasy from a drug dealer--only if you have the balls to do it.

Imagination.

 

[trinitymaybe]

I think the biggest turn on on hentai is the situations i mean in porn it's choreographed too.But in Hentai Anything is Possible.
And for me this way It's easier to imagine a real life picture in my head is if i start watching hentai and forming an image of a girl
i liked or liked to be doing it with. With real porn It's just there that girl is a pornstar with a stone etched name that you cant get out
of your head once you start fapping. But now and then i go between the two.