Hentai vs real Sex. My rant.

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I'm 30, I've been in 2 serious relationships filled with love, dated a handful of women throughout my life and have enjoyed anime since my very first taste of hentai back in the 90's with a PC game called Metal & Lace...a hentai game that didn't even have sex.

Whats more harrowing is the connection of sex with my partners vs growing up with hentai.

I crave sex with a real women as any healthy male would, but have always found it to be more akin to physical (though stimulating) exercise vs anything I've "experienced" in my imagination of what sex should be like...based on hentai. Yes hentai.

So how can this be? Can imagination be better then the real physical touch of your partner?

For me I believe the answer can partly be found in the fact that I was exposed to hentai when I was developing sexually as a pre-teen and (AND not understanding a line of japanese) my mind would create a cerebral imaginative sexual experiences that "real life" would never be able to live up to from a combination of perfect artistic visuals and imagination.

That said, I've been disappointed with hentai many - MANY times. I've put hours into a game only to come to a point where the story went into a direction I hate, left me wanting or felt completely missed an amazing erotic direction I had expected it CLEARLY was going before completely dropping the ball.

So whats my point? I love hentai and I hate hentai. Its ironically made the real thing better and I've taken ideas (positions, situations, ideas, ect) from hentai and added them to my real life sexual repertoire - with positive results - especially and IRONICALLY more so for my female partners...making me wonder if physically, women get more stimulation overall from sex then men do...but that's another topic...

Still I can thank hentai for expanding my mind in the bedroom...

Ironically (and has hard as this might be to believe) playing hentai has developed me to become a better judge of character when I meet females...because ironically (at a very base level) humans ARE easily categorized like anime character archetypes.

I'm a little older now then I was ten years ago, a little wiser. I know that one cannot replace the other but as I get older hentai has only aged for the better. Can I say the same about my age group?

Is hentai here to stay for me? Oh yeah...and yet I don't like picturing myself sitting at home playing hentai games 10 years from now...or god 20 years from now. It just seems wrong in some way until I realize I certainly won't be alone considering all the men in Japan that already do or will.

Still its made me realize that as you grow older...well growing old sucks and in so many new ways ever few year lol.

One thing I`d like to add was how powerful love and intimacy is in the making love - which can make those real carnal moments more enjoyable to - something I never learned from hentai but real life.

As for sex vs. hentai...well maybe I just haven't met the right girl with the right sexual chemistry yet.

Or maybe its all just in my imagination ;)
 
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This should probably be in Hentai Corner Ecchi Corner.

Although I can't relate to the real experience, I can understand where you're coming from. In fact, it's making me consider whether or not I'll turn out the same way. Unfortunately. orz

Hentai is basically erotic anime, and anime generally doesn't adhere to real life expectations, so it's no surprise that it'd be a let-down. It's like the school-life setting, where it may seem much more exciting at first, but if you were to actually go to a Japanese school, you'd probably burn-out / be bored the next day. That is, if you don't already go to one.

Just like many other things in life, there's your good hentai, and then there's your fair share of bad hentai. You just have to find the right ones.

Maybe what you're missing is love, considering your history. Overall, most hentai aren't even about love as opposed to pure lust.
 
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Maybe what you're missing is love, considering your history. Overall, most hentai aren't even about love as opposed to pure lust.

Actually I`ve never known sex without love, if anything I`ve never known sex for lust. Sure I`ve lusted after my girlfriend but its never been that beastial love that drives strangers together in a club bathroom - thought truth be told I`d never do that anyway. Gross.

I hate public washrooms...but thats an entirely different topic lol.
 
I watch hentai when my sex friends don't allow me to cum in their faces.
 
I don't understand why one would ever need to replace the other to begin with.
Hentai is is just hentai, a sexual fantasy. It satisfies your otherwise fetishes that may land you behind bars if you were to try them out irl.
Who says you need to stop playing hentai 10 years from now? If you have sexual needs that you can't ask your partner about, sit in your dark room and spend some quality time with your pixel girlfriend. Married men still watch porn. Why not hentai?

Admittedly I have had my share of boredom from hentai. I went away from the otaku scene a couple of years ago to be occupied in real life, but here I am again enjoying what I supposedly left behind back then. Yeah, real life relationship was actually pretty awesome, but doesn't mean it completely ruined hentai for me, just as hentai never ruined material touch. When I'm 40 I'll be playing/watching hentai to satisfy my "deviant" fetishes that my wife probably won't know about and will likely judge me for it. But if that's the price I have to pay for stepping foot into this territory of erotic awesomeness so be it.

Of course, when hentai evolves to a point of risking heightening your sexual lust beyond ground zero, it's probably time to call the quits ('A`)
 
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I watch hentai when my sex friends don't allow me to cum in their faces.

I busted out laughing so hard the person next to me walked away...


Anyway, when it comes to hentai and real sex, I don't think the two can be compared...
While I've never had any "real sex"(one with a partner), I believe it to offer a deeper sense of satisfaction than simply sexual pleasure - an emotional connection?... or something like that... Of course there are also a bunch of negative things like insecurity or whatever, depending on each person.
And hentai is simply visual stimulation, letting your imagination lose, acting as a catalyst to initiate masturbation, or whatever it is people do... Lol. It does offer what real life cannot but to me, the two is cannot be mixed
 
Have any of you consider having real sex while watching hentai? Just wondering, that's all.
 
Have any of you consider having real sex while watching hentai? Just wondering, that's all.

No, none of my ex's like anime - they don't dislike but it doesn't turn them on in anyway. I haven't actually watched too much hentai anime these days either, I find I enjoy visual novels more often then not now. I have looked at porn with my ex's but its never really been a thing for me to do that...although it sure is hot listening to girls TALK about porn with other girls lol.
 
To be frank I read it all even though it was to long. Yet I still don't get what you want to convey. Hentai is hentai RL is RL, both have good and bad points. I don't think we should compare them, for me it doesn't matter if someone is ~50 and jack off to drawn pictures in his PC, that is his business. People who would disapprove such behavior shouldn't even talk. After all people can do what they want, if someone wants to hump his goat so be it as long as we don't see it everything should be fine.
 
if someone wants to hump his goat so be it as long as we don't see it everything should be fine.

Omg... That is just wrong... too wrong... A guy humpping his goat... Rofl
 
To be frank I read it all even though it was to long. Yet I still don't get what you want to convey. Hentai is hentai RL is RL, both have good and bad points. I don't think we should compare them, for me it doesn't matter if someone is ~50 and jack off to drawn pictures in his PC, that is his business. People who would disapprove such behavior shouldn't even talk. After all people can do what they want, if someone wants to hump his goat so be it as long as we don't see it everything should be fine.

I've shortened it up a little, needed some editing but I often write these things when I'm tired which means I tend to go on, and on and on.

I think my point is, when I'm single I don't find I need to go looking for physical sex because hentai provides me all the pleasure I need - its only my human nature that fights against this in seeking true companionship beyond the physical. I think I would have been in more relationships if it had not been for hentai.

Just with hentai when I'm tired of a game, I can just quit...when your in a relationship...well theirs no real "save" and exit to desktop option.
 
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I've shortened it up a little, needed some editing but I often write these things when I'm tired which means I tend to go on, and on and on.

I think my point is, when I'm single I don't find I need to go looking for physical sex because hentai provides me all the pleasure I need - its only my human nature that fights against this in seeking true companionship beyond the physical. I think I would have been in more relationships if it had not been for hentai.

Just with hentai when I'm tired of a game, I can just quit...when your in a relationship...well theirs no real "save" and exit to desktop option.

Forget those bitches they demand too much from us. We're just human, we can't fulfill those romantic dreams of theirs after they've seen on tv.
 
Forget those bitches they demand too much from us. We're just human, we can't fulfill those romantic dreams of theirs after they've seen on tv.

Your posts have little or nothing to do with what the topic starter is trying to discuss (nobody is talking about integrity of women). Please refrain from straying the point of this topic. Thanks.
 
Forget those bitches they demand too much from us. We're just human, we can't fulfill those romantic dreams of theirs after they've seen on tv.
As far as I know trough my roaming around on the net, I heard that Japanese men now tend to idolize 2D while making real women a bitches.
Yeah its true that women are selfish but so are men, it doesn't change anything. And dinning with PC character is funny, but thats my opinion if someone wants to marry a pillow then let him do it, after all I won't see it anyway ^^.
 
I shall agree with XatR.
Hentai and RL should really never be compared. First of all, Hentai is mostly "perfect" or "near-perfect". At least there are cases which it can completely satisfy every craving for each individual's fantasies regarding the matter thus, it cannot be compared to real-life experiences. You just cannot always win nor take control of everything here in our side.

I guess its just your personal experiences that led you to your current assumptions. Think about it, do you think all women in the world are like that? How about the happy couples living together out there for a long time?

And admit it. You can somehow feel pitiful of yourself sometimes when you're trying to get cuddly with your 2D harem.
You still have much time remaining so try a change of pace. Who knows? The next one could be the last (In a good way of course.)
 

And admit it. You can somehow feel pitiful of yourself sometimes when you're trying to get cuddly with your 2D harem.
You still have much time remaining so try a change of pace. Who knows? The next one could be the last (In a good way of course.)
I myself am watching animated material for god knows how long, probably about 20-22 years now or more, started as a child when there were cartoons in my local tv, like Yattaman, Captain Tsubasa, General Daimos and others.
Yet when I see people claiming *waifus* on net, I'm like "Dude WTF how can you people treat 10101's as real people", but I mostly leave it to my *racists* <- (dunno if correct word for this case) nature. I just can't understand JPN'ese mentality where they sleep with daikamuras and other stuff, but thats because I'm from different continent probably.
However what makes me facepalm and *self-rage* the most are those stupid K-on moeblobs otaku, and similar, where they idolize and purify their Idol Virgin Moeblob princess ...
 
Haha. I was only able to say those stuff because I also went through a slightly similar case in life. XD
No offense intended for any of those.
 
Your posts have little or nothing to do with what the topic starter is trying to discuss (nobody is talking about integrity of women). Please refrain from straying the point of this topic. Thanks.

What do you mean has nothing to do with this topic? It is a guy's rant about hentai vs real sex. ie. real women. He hasn't found the right woman. My comment, as pointless as it maybe to you, has everything to do with this topic. "Hentai vs real Sex. My rant." I'm saying he should just choose hentai.
 
Yes, but the term used to describe so said women was demeaning, also off topic.
 
What do you mean has nothing to do with this topic? It is a guy's rant about hentai vs real sex. ie. real women. He hasn't found the right woman. My comment, as pointless as it maybe to you, has everything to do with this topic. "Hentai vs real Sex. My rant." I'm saying he should just choose hentai.

Nowhere did the topic creator mention he hasn't found right woman. This is merely a rant about stimulation of hentai vs. that of real sex, not how he can't gain any pleasure from real sex because his partner is a bitch like you try to make it look like. I've read the entire post, have you?

PM me if you insist on arguing me about this, and we can do it outside of this topic.

Edit: Ninja'd by Will >.>
 
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Alright, Orisa. You made your point.

I also got my say in as well.

Edit: Sorry Orisa, couldn't help it. :)
 
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As for sex vs. hentai...well maybe I just haven't met the right girl with the right sexual chemistry yet.

I'm not gonna give my email address to you so you can give them to spammer.
 
Nowhere did the topic creator mention he hasn't found right woman. This is merely a rant about stimulation of hentai vs. that of real sex, not how he can't gain any pleasure from real sex because his partner is a bitch like you try to make it look like. I've read the entire post, have you?

PM me if you insist on arguing me about this, and we can do it outside of this topic.

Edit: Ninja'd by Will >.>

Hellooooo no more argument? I'm lonely today.
 

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