- Nov 14, 2011
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I'm 30, I've been in 2 serious relationships filled with love, dated a handful of women throughout my life and have enjoyed anime since my very first taste of hentai back in the 90's with a PC game called Metal & Lace...a hentai game that didn't even have sex.
Whats more harrowing is the connection of sex with my partners vs growing up with hentai.
I crave sex with a real women as any healthy male would, but have always found it to be more akin to physical (though stimulating) exercise vs anything I've "experienced" in my imagination of what sex should be like...based on hentai. Yes hentai.
So how can this be? Can imagination be better then the real physical touch of your partner?
For me I believe the answer can partly be found in the fact that I was exposed to hentai when I was developing sexually as a pre-teen and (AND not understanding a line of japanese) my mind would create a cerebral imaginative sexual experiences that "real life" would never be able to live up to from a combination of perfect artistic visuals and imagination.
That said, I've been disappointed with hentai many - MANY times. I've put hours into a game only to come to a point where the story went into a direction I hate, left me wanting or felt completely missed an amazing erotic direction I had expected it CLEARLY was going before completely dropping the ball.
So whats my point? I love hentai and I hate hentai. Its ironically made the real thing better and I've taken ideas (positions, situations, ideas, ect) from hentai and added them to my real life sexual repertoire - with positive results - especially and IRONICALLY more so for my female partners...making me wonder if physically, women get more stimulation overall from sex then men do...but that's another topic...
Still I can thank hentai for expanding my mind in the bedroom...
Ironically (and has hard as this might be to believe) playing hentai has developed me to become a better judge of character when I meet females...because ironically (at a very base level) humans ARE easily categorized like anime character archetypes.
I'm a little older now then I was ten years ago, a little wiser. I know that one cannot replace the other but as I get older hentai has only aged for the better. Can I say the same about my age group?
Is hentai here to stay for me? Oh yeah...and yet I don't like picturing myself sitting at home playing hentai games 10 years from now...or god 20 years from now. It just seems wrong in some way until I realize I certainly won't be alone considering all the men in Japan that already do or will.
Still its made me realize that as you grow older...well growing old sucks and in so many new ways ever few year lol.
One thing I`d like to add was how powerful love and intimacy is in the making love - which can make those real carnal moments more enjoyable to - something I never learned from hentai but real life.
As for sex vs. hentai...well maybe I just haven't met the right girl with the right sexual chemistry yet.
Or maybe its all just in my imagination ;)
Whats more harrowing is the connection of sex with my partners vs growing up with hentai.
I crave sex with a real women as any healthy male would, but have always found it to be more akin to physical (though stimulating) exercise vs anything I've "experienced" in my imagination of what sex should be like...based on hentai. Yes hentai.
So how can this be? Can imagination be better then the real physical touch of your partner?
For me I believe the answer can partly be found in the fact that I was exposed to hentai when I was developing sexually as a pre-teen and (AND not understanding a line of japanese) my mind would create a cerebral imaginative sexual experiences that "real life" would never be able to live up to from a combination of perfect artistic visuals and imagination.
That said, I've been disappointed with hentai many - MANY times. I've put hours into a game only to come to a point where the story went into a direction I hate, left me wanting or felt completely missed an amazing erotic direction I had expected it CLEARLY was going before completely dropping the ball.
So whats my point? I love hentai and I hate hentai. Its ironically made the real thing better and I've taken ideas (positions, situations, ideas, ect) from hentai and added them to my real life sexual repertoire - with positive results - especially and IRONICALLY more so for my female partners...making me wonder if physically, women get more stimulation overall from sex then men do...but that's another topic...
Still I can thank hentai for expanding my mind in the bedroom...
Ironically (and has hard as this might be to believe) playing hentai has developed me to become a better judge of character when I meet females...because ironically (at a very base level) humans ARE easily categorized like anime character archetypes.
I'm a little older now then I was ten years ago, a little wiser. I know that one cannot replace the other but as I get older hentai has only aged for the better. Can I say the same about my age group?
Is hentai here to stay for me? Oh yeah...and yet I don't like picturing myself sitting at home playing hentai games 10 years from now...or god 20 years from now. It just seems wrong in some way until I realize I certainly won't be alone considering all the men in Japan that already do or will.
Still its made me realize that as you grow older...well growing old sucks and in so many new ways ever few year lol.
One thing I`d like to add was how powerful love and intimacy is in the making love - which can make those real carnal moments more enjoyable to - something I never learned from hentai but real life.
As for sex vs. hentai...well maybe I just haven't met the right girl with the right sexual chemistry yet.
Or maybe its all just in my imagination ;)
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