I've been through hell and hit by the devil himself and came out alive, is what i mean. I want to know you more so I can teach you the things I've learned. Ways to basically live the way you want to without having to take what life gives you.
I don't know if I can convince deca otherwise about his decision, but I intend to try. He might be willing to listen because of my age and experience. I can see more and more of myself in him whenever he says something.
It's hard to answer why I'd go so far, why get involved, but the simple answer is: that's what true friends do.