hiii~~ i layed down for a bit and about fell asleep XD
hanging by a thread but somehow I'll make it
I've known some guys to cry and girls hold in emotion~ it's mostly like cultural pressure for how either gender should act. When you really think about it, you could say it may influence the person's perspective a little. not sure what to say about that tho~
ummmm I went from being expressive to holding in alot a a very young age. Sometimes it's a little hard for me to express a vulnerable emotion or something like that, even if I tried/wanted to~
talking about things usually helps~ my lab partner being funny helped XD annnnnd just having that sense when it's okay or not okay to show emotion. There's been times where I know I couldn't let myself cry between a class soo I had to hide somewhere x_x
Sometimes it's better to hold back anger~ soooo it really depends on the situation. It's really an okay thing to cry~
I mean, if your wife dies would you cry? It doesn't have to be that extreme, but you get the idea :P
I didn't cry when my grandfather died. Not because I didn't like him, he was one of the greatest persons ever but all that was in my head is what he and relatives before him left me with and what should I do with that and what would he like me to become... Not a single tear was shed. I am just not that type of a person...