[LPW#49] ! Lets get it lets go!

[thecoins]

beer won't solve anything...

 

[Monjster]

U sure about that?

 

[MadSova]

Yep. Bear doesn't solve anything at all. It makes you think that it is solved but that is no solution at all.

 

[Monjster]

Bear would just rip your insides off and eat them... Beer on another hand. It helps u see how actually all those things are not that big. It doesn't mather how much u get nervous, angry or sad it's so small

 

[MadSova]

Damn, I always confuse beer and bear xD Anyway, I meant beer there ;p And what is the point of making those things small? Also, it doesn't make them smaller even one bit. It just makes them seem that way to you. Which doesn't solve anything...

 

[Monjster]

Well u stop worrying about them that much. That's the secret. How many times have I been told from peeps that Im the most relaxed person they have ever seen...

 

[musangbeku]

I am easy going and never depressed person, and I don't need beer, but doesn't mean I don't respect other people who need beer . I think it's matter of choice xD

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm but is it actually a good idea to be less worried about a situation worth worrying about?

I never really thought of myself as a depressed person till a couple weeks ago when this depression started >.< Biggest one ive had so far and not one that i can just ignore unlike the other ones...

 

[MadSova]

I don't think it is, Samye... Anyway, you also need to consider the fact that there are people like me who aren't affected by beer so even if you drink it, it may not even make you more relaxed at all...

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm... i dont drink so no idea what that does to me :/

 

[aexiel]

or people like me who simply vomit at the taste of beer, or anything bitter at that.

Also, I find it best to simply not to over think things and just go with the flow. Depression doesn't really root from anything except your own mind.

 

[MadSova]

But you know, is that thing that Samye is experiencing really is an overthinking? I mean if you think logically then just thinking too much isn't gonna bring you any bad things... You just have to ONLY think and not take action based on that thinking. Or make yourself think even more so that you think whether your thinking is right or wrong...

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

I know that im thinking wrongly but my mind is focusing on the negative aspects due to my depression... and its mostly an emotional thing...

 

[aexiel]

well thinking too much about how depressed you are or about how you're going to get out if it will only undoubtedly bring you further down. Sometimes, the best thing to do really is just not to think.

The mind is like a computer, and depression is like a bad installation of a program to the system, it freezes it hampers the computer's processing and the only best thing you do is a clean boot or a restore

 

[MadSova]

Then kick yourself in the face, scream "Stop!" and start thinking not only about bad aspects but about each and every aspect there is. Or simply give in to madness and perform a crazy laugh, might help...

You can also break your computer ;p

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm actually this depression sprouts from people around me? I do believe that a certain friend is the source of my depression... I cant really make myself not think... but i recently got some idea that the friend's actions is due to her depression and its not that shes ignoring me because... well... idk she just doesnt want to talk much >.<

I do think about the positive aspects but the depression brings up the negative aspects more and gives them presence even if theyre baseless... im searching for a reason to be positive and have been since the depression started..

 

[MadSova]

Isn't the best way from such situation is just call her and ask whether she is ignoring you? If you are calm enough while doing that you can get whether she ignores you from the tone of her voice no matter what she tells you. Call at the time when you are at least 80% sure that she isn't busy...

 

[aexiel]

you're depressed cause you're looking for reasons. that is the fallacy of humans

you never really need a reason to be happy.

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm this is someone that i just chat with online... i already asked her if i was bothering her and other stuff and she said no so its mostly just me overthinking atm... Im remember our relationship (no were not bf gf or whatnot... just good friends... or so we used to be?) being... closer? which is what bothers me mostly... i dont like losing friends... >.<

 

[aexiel]

I don't consider anyone as a friend unless dictated by networking apps so can't help ya der

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Basically i value friendship and shes one of the closest friends i have atm so... idk losing this friendship would be quite harsh for me... and i think ill just sleep >.< Theres actually another root cause i could think of for my depression which is from another close friend i was worrying about...

Blah whatever goodnightys

 

[MadSova]

Same as Aexiel... I don't think of anyone as a friend so it's a bit hard to understand... I'm a kind of person that can just go straight ahead and block the guy I communicated with for 3 years straight every day forever without even feeling sad... (done that yesterday... That idiot became such a scum that it was disgusting even talking to him... I don't plan to unblock him or ever speak to him again...)

But is there anything you can even do in that kind of situation except for waiting? Just wait. if you try to question her too much you may only seem annoying... If she continues to "ignore" you for about... two weeks then she is probably really ignoring you...

Good night and mad dreams, Samye ;p

 

[musangbeku]

nite [MENTION=8332]samyeung46[/MENTION];

 

[MadSova]

Spam spam spam and back to Project Diva f...

 

[unownHGSS]

whoa..at page 48 already..
Shows much inactive I am ...