Us women have it tough,
we have to be sexy
Not really in my opinion. It's more important that the women shows her love than to dress up or put a coat of makeup on (which by the way I hate makeup I like women that can be admired for they way they truly look not the way a couple hundred dollars in makeup can make them look).
Again not really. It's a plus to be naughty but to a point and seldom not often. It's more important to know that if the mood is right then she might get a little naughty.
we have to be open minded
You and I have discussed this several times already and truthfully I prefer everyone to be open minded, however again this isn't all that important to me. I appreciate the fact that a woman will hear me out but I don't expect them to be all for the things I like or want to try it's a plus but it's not necessary. Same goes for myself I consider myself to be extremely open minded, however even I have a few things that I just would prefer not to do.
You have to have the right balance of seriousness and silliness in my opinion. It's far more important that a woman can read the mood and know when it's a time to be serious and when it's a time to be silly, same goes for guys we too must be able to read the mood and know when we need to be serious or silly.
This I hate with a passion. I want a woman to be young at heart and playful but acting/being childish is a major no no for me. We are not kids anymore it's time we put our big boy undies/big girl panties on. Now don't get me wrong being this way in a silly manner to lighten a mood or just goofing off in general is fine but in general this is a very loathsome quality and I prefer to not be with one who has this quality. :)
Hmmm this is 50/50 with me I don't care either way on this however it's not a requirement. I feel that if a woman is playful it's because they just feel like it at the time. Sure it's nice to be relaxing and then suddenly have an instance where she feels playful as we know it will lead to something more :)
I think a woman should be this way when a situation warrants such. I mean if I'm copping an attitude with a woman I damn well better get it thrown back at me. No woman should have to feel less than a man. So why should they take sh*t without giving back. However I think neither man nor woman should be like this unless it's warranted.
I would go as far to say that I hate this notion. Yeah I'm an otaku but I don't find school girl outfits the least bit appealing. On the other hand instead of a school girl outfit I do appreciate a nighty however even that doesn't matter to me. Clothes don't excite me anymore than a woman standing in front of me in the nude does. It's the connection we have and feel towards one another that turns me on, not some fancy negligee or just being there in your birthday suit. To me they are the same, it's what happens afterwards that I like and want.
maintain a sense of strength at times
A woman that doesn't show strength is a woman not worth being with. I know that probably sounds harsh but seriously don't give me some crap that you can't do things because you are "frail, weak, dainty" if that's the case then what was the point of Susan B Anthony fighting for women's rights for? Or what was the point of the &70's bra burning protest?..... seriously.
be weak and helpless at times.
Refer to my previous statement.
Bottom line is yeah there are a lot of guys that would agree with you 100%, however not every guy does or will. But then again I'm an odd guy so it could just be me. Who knows.
Edit
This may have sounded harsh or like I am being an a$$ just to make clear that is not my intention I just wanted to comment on your points made. :)