Married, Single, or in a Relationship?

I'm in a long distance relationship >< Saaah embarrassing, boyfriend spends most of his time on another forums.

As long as you love each others...and maybe not being in the same forum is a good thing ? It might be only more embarrassing ~? Seeing each others type silly stuff
edit: or perhaps fun, kinda made me unsure, when thinking about it. NM me...

[MENTION=27649]XEdge[/MENTION] ; be encouraged, put warpaint on if you can, you are def not the only one who feels that way, and certainly not the first to notice contrasts between the ideal, and the state of the world we are living in. I think, that thinking about love in just one fashion or form is a potential recipe that can lead to downfall, e.g. girlfriend, but I know talk is cheap, and it's easy to say but, isn't necessarily much of a comfort too you. My heart might not be where yours is right now, but I hear your words and your pain, and so I can feel that, and understand well what your describing I think.

Realities certainly has it's share of nasty punches, the kind that makes you cough blood and spit teeth. But I would like to try and claim, that even if it's just one true friend, that actually loves you, with a true love, it can provide some love to your heart, if that person has it in their own. It is my understanding that the greater things of life is sometimes so simple that we miss them. But we are to busy to notice. if you find a girl you love, and that loves you, it would be great, but if you have real caring friends, anyone at all, that you can share your hearts desires, and love with, that is a little piece of treasure right there as well. Let me tell you a little secret, which is really no secret at all....The World, is really not the way it is meant to be. But it will change, even though seemingly for the worst first. Just hold on, look for that one thing that is greater than you or me, that is more than even life itself as we know it. If you can find the things with eternity in mind, then I believe you might find hope for things you hadn't been able to hope for before.
 
As long as you love each others...and maybe not being in the same forum is a good thing ? It might be only more embarrassing ~?

Hahaha nah, we met on the same forums - just that, I have been chasing my own dreams and interests and moved to a forum which offered more discussion which is popular (like otome games)! It's a little embarrassing, but only because I have a feeling he doesn't have feelings for me anymore :P
 
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Hahaha nah, we met on the same forums - just that, I have been chasing my own dreams and interests and moved to a forum which offered more discussion which is popular (like otome games)! It's a little embarrassing, but only because I have a feeling he doesn't have feelings for me anymore :P

(that was a fast reply ^)
Oh, is that forum you moved too, this forum ? Otome games ^.^ Tried forcing him to play Otome games in order to get him to like it as a possible solution ? :redface: heh.

I'm not sure I quite get the embarrassing part to be honest. And if thats the case that he doesn't have feelings anymore for you, then if you never had the chance to get too attached then you might be saved from the heartache. If he's not too serious about the relationship, or the relationship has not had the chance to get too serious yet, then you'll probably be better of finding out sooner rather than later. Is he someone you've fallen very deeply in love with ? Or is it more of a "your interesting" type of relationship ?

Btw I would love to stick around bit longer right now, but I'm going to have to check back again tomorrow, cause it's 4.11 am here, my mind is to tired to think clearly much longer I'm afraid(and who knows what I might end up writing then :+) and I'm about ready to shut down ><

Why you think he might not have feelings for you anymore though. Feels like your just kinda slipping apart, and he seems kinda uninterested perhaps ?

/me runs of to bed for now.

[MENTION=7722]Second_Flight[/MENTION] ;
eh hehe...it means someone played too much pokemon and went crazy...That might make me worried for you flight. Orrrrr, because It's so late right now, I'm imagining a funny scenario where some pokemaniac breaks into a toystore and tries to hump all the plushies before it opens it's buy 1 get 3 for free campaign the following day.

I have no idea actually right now...:breakin:
 
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(that was a fast reply ^)
Oh, is that forum you moved too, this forum ? Otome games ^.^ Tried forcing him to play Otome games in order to get him to like it as a possible solution ? :redface: heh.

I'm not sure I quite get the embarrassing part to be honest. And if thats the case that he doesn't have feelings anymore for you, then if you never had the chance to get too attached then you might be saved from the heartache. If he's not too serious about the relationship, or the relationship has not had the chance to get too serious yet, then you'll probably be better of finding out sooner rather than later. Is he someone you've fallen very deeply in love with ? Or is it more of a "your interesting" type of relationship ?

Btw I would love to stick around bit longer right now, but I'm going to have to check back again tomorrow, cause it's 4.11 am here, my mind is to tired to think clearly much longer I'm afraid(and who knows what I might end up writing then :+) and I'm about ready to shut down ><

Why you think he might not have feelings for you anymore though. Feels like your just kinda slipping apart, and he seems kinda uninterested perhaps ?

/me runs of to bed for now.


Hahaha, nah, you had replied to me at 11:50AM (Australian Time) and I woke up around then and saw the notification 5 or 6 minutes afterwards.

I don't know, I just think that long distance relationships which rely online commitment and lots of communication and dedication run dry and dead really fast because - welp - eventually, you lose things to discuss about. We've only been together for 5 months too :P

And yes! ASF is my second forum, I'm giving it a try because A4 (my first forum) is a bit strict and sometimes I just like to loosen up and be able to discuss about almost anything (anything porn/hentai related is banned) and on topics which aren't popular there (visual novels, otome games, hentai - because I totally need hentai).

But really, I'm still in high school - is there really a true love sensation which can be experienced by a 15 year old?
But fairly to say, for a responsible teenager, I truly love him ^^ No matter the distance. But I think separating from each other for a little bit will help things in future, maybe, well, I'm hoping so c: !
 
[MENTION=25661]GenKiDan[/MENTION]; A thank you is still a thank you. So thanks again for the like!
Consuming love, it's like a double suicide weapon
Is it the purest form of love, hmm. . I wonder.
I. .found it beautiful and destructive at the same times.
Madness of love, that's ironic.
I am thinking to apply it into:
madness=love or love=madness, lol

Hey, thanks!
I would like to concentrate on my life first.
But if fate manage the entangle me, let it be.
Hahaha, that's a good idea! Though I believe guys like their freedom better than my love.
Give in like a DO-M? Resist my love or push me xD
Heart is precious, I admit. I've lost mine before. Not to love, but to something else.
Hah, love is so fragile, but can it be so strong.
So ironic. So, intense that it makes you sick and would rather have cure
but when you watch that certain person, everything succumb to worth.
Give out too much love rather than receiving, it is madness, I agree.

Hahaha, guess what?
I'm an ex-literature students before I come to college. So, it's natural to be influence.
Hmm.. yep, I have heard of him before, but where was it?!
I can't remember. Failed memory TT^TT
Ooh, good one. That's his works on Hamlet.
I'm surprised. Many people know this quote than I thought it would. Must be the catchy phrase xD

[MENTION=27649]XEdge[/MENTION]; I am so sorry to hear that!
You are strong enough to face reality
. .That's the one of situation I would like to avoid.
a nasty call (or text, it would fit much better)
You have gain something while losing.
It hits a clear as ice crystals, that it usually makes you feel disconnected to the world.
I personally think it's better to face everything directly
and keep moving forward. I have stuck in the past, where everythings around me just running wild, evolving, leaving me behind.
Trust me, I don't like that feelings.

So, congrats yourself, appreciate for what you have and achieved.
Your pain doesn't dissolve easily, but a step is a success. May you be heal. .
 
ahh this page haunts me. it practically harasses me by saying, "hey dude, nothing's changed, your still single. stop slacking" well i'm trying damn it!! :objection:

This breakdown has been provided by Ammu-Nation "if you want to shoot away your problems, we've got what you need"
 
Hahaha, nah, you had replied to me at 11:50AM (Australian Time) and I woke up around then and saw the notification 5 or 6 minutes afterwards.

I don't know, I just think that long distance relationships which rely online commitment and lots of communication and dedication run dry and dead really fast because - welp - eventually, you lose things to discuss about. We've only been together for 5 months too :P

And yes! ASF is my second forum, I'm giving it a try because A4 (my first forum) is a bit strict and sometimes I just like to loosen up and be able to discuss about almost anything (anything porn/hentai related is banned) and on topics which aren't popular there (visual novels, otome games, hentai - because I totally need hentai).

But really, I'm still in high school - is there really a true love sensation which can be experienced by a 15 year old?
But fairly to say, for a responsible teenager, I truly love him ^^ No matter the distance. But I think separating from each other for a little bit will help things in future, maybe, well, I'm hoping so c: !

Well thats very honest. 5 months is not so short a time imo, at least when I think about a online relation, unlike 2 weeks. I believe though that if its that very special love, it will hold you together, no matter what. But here I am not even sure if I should say this right now, seeing as you said you wondered about somethings....But one can learn about the heart as long as you live. Learning every intricate parts of your loves heart. A boy who loves you so intensely might think to do so, either consciously or subconsciously, so that he may know you even better than yourself if it where possible. At least, it's a possibility.

Loosen up yah thats nice, I love that myself. >< lol, plz don't start being any cooler. I have such a silly boy mindedness still I guess or something I find it extremely cool to hear a girl say such a thing hahaha. /me facepalms himself and thinks about what useful things to do in order to feel normal again.

By a 15 year old, I can't claim to know rly, shouldn't need to matter at least. Heart(love) is whats truly important, but might play some role of probability perhaps. I'm not 15 anymore, but when I was, I was, umhhh, hadn't had all that much time to develop the heart yet perhaps~?
I don't think you should feel bad if either of you discover you are just not feeling ready yet for something too serious at this stage of life. You do sound responsible indeed, and even surprisingly reflective as well, reminds me about the whole "girls develop emotionally earlier than boys thing".... Well you know best the intensity of that love, I'm thinking to myself, that even in a worst case scenario, you can hopefully both learn something, and still have love for each others no matter what as very good and close friends. <3 But I must say, from my impression of life, 'that' separating part seems like often the thing that just enables either one to go like, "lets just be friends" a lot easier, cause then it kinda doesn't come so suddenly and brutally, but eases one into a transition if you see what I mean.
 
[MENTION=25661]GenKiDan[/MENTION]; A thank you is still a thank you. So thanks again for the like!
Consuming love, it's like a double suicide weapon
Is it the purest form of love, hmm. . I wonder.
I. .found it beautiful and destructive at the same times.
Madness of love, that's ironic.
I am thinking to apply it into:
madness=love or love=madness, lol

Hey, thanks!
I would like to concentrate on my life first.
But if fate manage the entangle me, let it be.
Hahaha, that's a good idea! Though I believe guys like their freedom better than my love.
Give in like a DO-M? Resist my love or push me xD
Heart is precious, I admit. I've lost mine before. Not to love, but to something else.
Hah, love is so fragile, but can it be so strong.
So ironic. So, intense that it makes you sick and would rather have cure
but when you watch that certain person, everything succumb to worth.
Give out too much love rather than receiving, it is madness, I agree.

Hahaha, guess what?
I'm an ex-literature students before I come to college. So, it's natural to be influence.
Hmm.. yep, I have heard of him before, but where was it?!
I can't remember. Failed memory TT^TT
Ooh, good one. That's his works on Hamlet.
I'm surprised. Many people know this quote than I thought it would. Must be the catchy phrase xD

Beautiful and destructive aih, I 2nd that. Or painful, but I've come to the conclusion that if I have to choose, okey, then I'll take the pain, cause it's my pain, and without love, whats left? I think it's worth it, rather than loosing it so I can be painless, but in the heat of the moment, when the pain is at it's worst, being desperate enough one might do anything just to numb it. I would maybe let love kill me, because I fear that if I rejected it, I might later come to my senses, and cry out regretfully with great bitterness and only have death left, terrible thought! Kinda like in a movie, where some guy is infected by a zombie, and he says to he's friends to kill him before he looses himself, and becomes a walking dead. Similarly I'll rather go down with love, lest I commit a great error and never being able to forgive myself, thinking I've betrayed love itself...
Though I believe guys like their freedom better than my love.
I wouldn't be so sure about that, nor consider what you have to give of little value. I'd say that it's only a matter of them learning to know and understand it. But it takes love, to understand love, it must first enter into a heart. Being the abstract concept that it is, it can be invisible to some people, and many can't truly see it even though you can. I could probably go on and on, there seems to often be so much to say about it. I'll try to spare you my sometimes longwindedness. I think I've been known for writing loong walls of text sometimes....And I don't want to bore you with that, probably have enough of that at school already.

DO-M xD it was not so easy to find out what that actually meant, but don't worry I finally did. :redface:
Well, I wouldn't know, but possibly, yes like resisting love, then not being able to resist it anymore. It can be merciless, and has it's way to force itself into a heart from the inside. That is, as long as there is already some present in the heart, it would't work on a heartless person. But as long as a heart does have it, love has something to work with. Simply put,(and I'm trying hard not to overuse the word here but) Love resonates with Love. There is a lot of wisdom to be had about something as remarkable as a human soul/heart.
I'll just agree with all the rest you wrote.

Interesting to know, what literature have you read ? and how it's effected you is interesting, includes lots of poetry ? Well Francis Bacon is associated with "The New Atlantis" and is claimed by some to be the actual real person of Shakespear. Shakespear then being his fake identity. A name possibly taken from the Greek goddess of wisdom 'Athena' , who would supposedly shake her spear and enlighten men with wisdom, "breaking the illusions and thoughts of folly". Thereby the wordplay of 'shakespear'.
Yeah I think its like just the most quoted phrase from hamlet of all time, quoting it might be bit of a cliche. Vaguely remember even seeing it in a tv commercial once.

I have stuck in the past, where everythings around me just running wild, evolving, leaving me behind.
Trust me, I don't like that feelings.
... :stilleathead: ::chills:: o.0 me neither!

P.s. realized, it would maybe be best if we didn't continue this up in this thread "} It might not belong here so much.
 
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Single, and proudly so. I have too many problems at hand to deal with rather than spending time with someone not family.

In all fairness I do want a girlfriend. I don't want to deal with her problems though, or the problems I will cause and her nagging about it. Seems counter-argumentative doesn't it? :D
 
Happily single. Been engaged and that ended badly, as did the last two relationships ive had lol.

sigh. #foreveralone :P
 
Been single for quite a while. Last relationship I was in lasted almost two years. I miss romance :(
 
Not too surprising, Nightmare King. I've never been in a relationship either :P
But yeah, the usual reaction to that is :eek: "What?!" and then :rolleyes: "oh come on, NEVER?"
And actually, I've no plans to ever enter into one.
 
oh really :o I finally found a fellow mate :giveme:
normally ppl would surprise to hear this hahaha
well maybe I'll in the future :casserole:
 
Well i suppose the older ones... =w= Ill never have the guts to say soooo not anytime soon~ xD
 
Never been in a relationship and anyone i have ever asked rejected me so i tend to not bother any more with that side of things.
I can barely keep myself afloat these days with my issues let alone having the struggles of a relationship there as well.
Also no chick wants a severely depressed Boyfriend lol
 
u guys will be surprise to hear this, I've never been in relationship with anyone before :whistle:

I'm not surprised. Neither have I.
Though a lot of ppl seem to be in Hell also. (noticing location)

Well i suppose the older ones... =w= Ill never have the guts to say soooo not anytime soon~ xD
Oh ?? I'm sry I wasn't able to follow. YOu'll never have the guts to do what ? You meant your own status ?... ;)

Never been in a relationship and anyone i have ever asked rejected me so i tend to not bother any more with that side of things.
I can barely keep myself afloat these days with my issues let alone having the struggles of a relationship there as well.
Also no chick wants a severely depressed Boyfriend lol
Might be that you just asked the wrong ones ;) If that helps, who knows, I don't.

It can probably be a good idea to try and deal with things that you are aware of first, but I think that might depend on the things.

Also, I wouldn't count yourself out because of that.
 
I'm not surprised. Neither have I.
Though a lot of ppl seem to be in Hell also. (noticing location)


Oh ?? I'm sry I wasn't able to follow. YOu'll never have the guts to do what ? You meant your own status ?... ;)


Might be that you just asked the wrong ones ;) If that helps, who knows, I don't.

It can probably be a good idea to try and deal with things that you are aware of first, but I think that might depend on the things.

Also, I wouldn't count yourself out because of that.

well good thing that's not a surprise thing :3

I would also like to know what samyeung meant :giveme:
 

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