OH MY GLOB YOU GUYS (~^O^)~

[Ghost Kitty~]

Lol nopes~ They never got through the second layer cuz the second and third layer were intertwined and thus made it somewhat more difficult ;p Never got the courage to ask her though :x

Hmm are random meetings bad?

 

[Eternal Blue]

Tread number 3..........no idea

 

[両儀式]

I'm not really sure if random meetings are good or bad per se Sammy. :( I've heard people had wonderful relationships from random encounters but I think it might be lower numbers than those who gradually become loves? I can't really say, me and relationships don't mix at all. ._.;

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm i would say that becoming friends would make the relationship last longer... unless they both came wishing for a relationship or something... it is said that it only takes a couple min to decide if you would get along with a person so yeahhhh~

 

[両儀式]

I've actually heard something like that before, like women in the first 45sec of meeting a man can decide if they want to be with them or not? *shrug*
Aside from both walking into something and both wanting something I guess there is still "Fate" or even "love at first sight"? I don't believe in fate though and 9/10 "love at first sight" seems to be a one-sided love. D: unrequited love always loves to sink its teeth into me...

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm its just knowing the really basic personality and stuff i think...
Fate... hmm dont really care for it ;p Even if there is fate ill just do what i want~
Love at first sight... idk xD Doesnt sound like love...

 

[両儀式]

Haha yeah, love at first sight seems more aesthetics than anything~ Well I guess they also start from one nice act that makes you fall in love with that person if you are someone who isn't use to people being nice to you which usually ends up with... this(picture below).

But that isn't really love at first sight anymore is it? Meh...

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Lol kind of just a one sided obsession ;p

 

[thecoins]

love in the first sight... for me it isn't love at all, it's just "interested" feeling to the person you see

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm though i do think some girl did fall for hideki cuz he did something good to her ;p Though they broke up after :/

 

[Baal]

Love at first sight is probably lust, but lust can turn into love, it what gets a guy interested. But better it's to find a common interest and then follow through that is what is done most of the time, which can still fail and bring more age to the person. Which can also affect the next relationship. Lust can inevitable lead to a feeling of ownership and you always care more for the things you pay then the things given. =/

Also yandere, hit squad. Compare/ Contrast, play with fire... get burned.

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm yes lust... doesnt quite connect two people as much as having known them for a while would...

 

[Baal]

But then we ask the question, what is the person like? Truelly there is stuff always hidden, so we are the only ones that know ourselves. But be that as it may, love is accepting kinks and good traits.

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Lol well lets say become good/best friends with the other person first then ;p Thats about the closest that someone would get to knowing the other person without being in a relationship (sometimes more cuz people might hide stuff from bf/gf they dont hide from best friends)~ Try living together for a bit too and see how the other person is too~

 

[両儀式]

I spent seven years+ "getting to know" someone and they completely snapped during the last year breaking my heart. I don't think its possible to truly get to know someone, everyone puts up different persona's. If seven+ years doesn't tell you all about the person than what will you know? Yay~ brought back some bad memories...
/me goes back to their true love... anime~

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Snapped... :x Ehh... Was there actually something wrong?...

 

[Slayn312]

Relationship talk.....

/me remember the time like it was yesterday....

 

[両儀式]

I didn't really do anything wrong to warrant what they did to me. I lost internet when we had plans for later that night to play a online game together and so I called them saying "Hey my internet is out so I can't make it tonight" but they were upset that I called them and their personality totally flipped saying things like "F**k you, I hope you die!" "I never loved you, I was just lying to you all these years" and what not. They told me not to ever call unless it was a important and I figured it was important to call and say I can't make it... things only got worse after that, kept harassing me by saying all these cold things to me that almost drove me to the point of suicide. I loved that person with every ounce of my being and never once talked back, just sat there taking every word of it with tears in my eyes. Ever since then I've not been able to get close to a single other person. Eh...

Edit: Don't dwell on relationship talk Slayn! Relationships suck and I'll never be in another one again. Single is the way to be~

 

[Baal]

Yes deception is present in everyone, but as with every human we have the spirit to survive, but still i'm going to be honest and say one thing that I love about history how the great men and women acquired what they wanted. The fall, the rise, it's always occurring. Plus one shouldn't trust a person completely, after all study Machiavelli's words, some of the people a person can trust most can be there worse enemy, and a person can use Death Note as well. But again i'm using references from a person born in 1469. Yeah, my two-cents. Prepare.

 

[~SnowAngel~]

hmm~
[MENTION=8332]samyeung46[/MENTION]; I confessed to someone a long time ago~ the idea of a relationship was rejected, but we've became good friends to this day.
Another person I was in a relationship with was forced to break up with me, things went sour but we still consider each other as friends. :P


soooo even if you don't think that person is interested in you, just tell them how you feel and it'll get them thinking
I've turned down my share of requests and told them what they had to do if they really wanted me that much. It wasn't asking for too much relly~ but non of them pulled through x_x

mmmmm the thing about lust has to do with your motivation for that person~ Just because someone is attractive doesn't mean it's lust to be their friend. Believe it or not, alot of attractive girls are really insecure and feel like no one loves them~
They go for the jerky turky guys who break their hearts but somehow feel like they find value in that relationship. It's sad ;_;

 

[Baal]

It is sad, T-T due to our media, but I feel terrible for the kids coming, up. One of the human W's why am I here.

 

[~SnowAngel~]

it kinda makes me sad when ppl say they have no purpose since that's not true~
I want to speak into their life the truth and life that's given to me, but not in a way that causes people to bring suffering :/
still, there's only so much that i could do here -.-~
anywaayyyy more homework x_X


oh btw i might start a topic about issues about media, and things ppl really don't know~
look forward to it

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm i dont think i would lose my friendship with her if i confess... but might get a bit more awkward... ehh wth ill just act like usual and pass everything off as me being odd again ;p Thats usually how i get through everything and people explain everything about meh~ Sighs... I wonder if she would consider me a close friend... :x Mehs i dont know enough about her... but im planning on going to the same uni as her with the excuse that its a better school for what i want to do which is true ;p

 

[~SnowAngel~]

samy~ I've heard of ppl that rejected someone at first, but came to them later~
I've been in a place of not being willing to take the first step in friendship, but I'm seeing changes in that now thanks to lots of things, but it really did start with with me wanting to change.
soooooo you can do it~ :P

 

[両儀式]

/me has faith in Sammy~