(PART 1)
Thank you! ^^
Same, I wish they'd come some other time when I'm not trying to get to sleep, or just not at all.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through all that :( Sometimes Plan A fails in the beginning, but that's not to say it can never happen. Sometimes all you need is to take a detour to get where you want, so maybe in the future, after Plan B, you'll be able to make moving to Japan a reality
Short term goals can be anything, like getting some exercise into your day, drinking a glass of water when you wake up, save a bit of money today, studying for at least 3 hours this evening - little things basically. Just being able to tick something off - that you've accomplished something - is such a nice feeling because it really shows that you've gotten stuff done, whether it be big or small, and you're not in a standstill :)
I'd like to say something along the lines of, "trying not to think too much about the student loan and focus sorely on your studies" but it's not that easy, especially when that means you won't be getting money from the state because of it. I did some research to try and better understand your situation but please correct me if I'm wrong regarding any of this. When you mean get paid by the state, are you stalking about the social security welfare over in Sweden? And the student loan is from CNS? Do you think you could be eligible for 'boarding supplement' and 'student allowance'? Or would you be able to ask for help from your parents? Sorry, these questions probably seem rather redundant as I'm sure you've gone over every option possible for yourself already :c
Thank you! ^^
Same, I wish they'd come some other time when I'm not trying to get to sleep, or just not at all.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through all that :( Sometimes Plan A fails in the beginning, but that's not to say it can never happen. Sometimes all you need is to take a detour to get where you want, so maybe in the future, after Plan B, you'll be able to make moving to Japan a reality
Short term goals can be anything, like getting some exercise into your day, drinking a glass of water when you wake up, save a bit of money today, studying for at least 3 hours this evening - little things basically. Just being able to tick something off - that you've accomplished something - is such a nice feeling because it really shows that you've gotten stuff done, whether it be big or small, and you're not in a standstill :)
I'd like to say something along the lines of, "trying not to think too much about the student loan and focus sorely on your studies" but it's not that easy, especially when that means you won't be getting money from the state because of it. I did some research to try and better understand your situation but please correct me if I'm wrong regarding any of this. When you mean get paid by the state, are you stalking about the social security welfare over in Sweden? And the student loan is from CNS? Do you think you could be eligible for 'boarding supplement' and 'student allowance'? Or would you be able to ask for help from your parents? Sorry, these questions probably seem rather redundant as I'm sure you've gone over every option possible for yourself already :c