You're making a great mistake my friend... I've been playing video games since I was 2 years old and I was a pro in almost every genre until the university took away my time :(, but anyway I'm still playing games but not for so much time as I used to play (around 8-14 hours per day in holidays and 2-4 hours the rest of the days); so about your question, if you ask me, then I will recommend you, without thinking it twice, PS4, because XBOX One only has games of First Person Shooter and Sport, and being sincere, they haven't changed at all, besides the graphics of course, since I can remember, while PS4 is abundant in all kind of games, starting from my favorites the JRPG's and going all the way down until the list ends with the FPS and Sports ones, moreover, PS never has had region protection (which means you can play games from Japan by just inserting them on the console), and last but not least, because the manufacturer of XBOX is Microsoft and come on, they aren't great, if I use Windows it's just because is necessary to play Eroge 'cause they don't run on another platform, be it Ubuntu (the one I use for work) nor MacOS (the one I hate the most).
Sorry to write this much, but I'm just not the type that says yes or no just because I can, I'd rather justify why I say what I say.
Hope this helps you to decide which one :).