THINGS GUYS SHOULD KNOW ABOUT GIRLS

[~SnowAngel~]

Above scenario did happen to me late in high school. To make things even more complicated, the girl involved was a girl I grew up with (I've known her since she was 5) so I was really surprised when said Brenda passed me the note with the infamous question. I've loved this girl since I actually really knew what love was, so of course I was more than happy to hear this.

Sadly, when I plucked up the courage to ask her out, she rejected me, saying she doesn't feel that way about me. Needless to say I was pretty devastated, and even though it's been almost 9 years since this happened, I haven't really recovered from that.

Guess there must be something horribly wrong with me, heh?

hmmm do you think that note was meant to make your ask her out? I mean.. people could do that if they want to see a romance :P
as far as rejection, I can't say for much about people you've known for that long. (If you know there's boundaries, and you tried to go further..) anyways~ You should probably be glad she did say no, but it doesn't mean it can't happen much later :o
Girls do change their mind often XD Some aren't ready for a relationship, some don't want to settle for less or for the wrong reasons. annd some want to be sure about their feelings before taking it further. I mean, I wouldn't want a random person ask me out at school, but I don't want our friendship based on that idea either. (like it being a goal, or finding out then dropping it, idk)
Girls that say yes easily doesn't mean that you'll keep them forever. I'd rather hear a for-sure no than a half-hearted yes. It's really better for both of us in the long run :o Of course, we'd still be friends and all :3
I might start asking ppl "what do you think of me?" if I don't have any invitations sometime XD I think some ppl do have to resort to asking whether or not someone would be interested. I wouldn't do online dating tho.. that's kinda difficult for me x-x
But even in all of the glory of being single~ you could still better yourself for that person<3

 

[musangbeku]

maybe I'm too late to join this conversation, but yeah woman sure is complicated :P

 

[Will98]

I'd like to know why women have to cry to be happy... and why a woman has to take a group with her to use the restroom *_*...

 

[FinalPyre]

I'm pretty convinced that people do not cry when they are happy, other than some kind of reaction from laughing hard. They cry because they tend to imagine what could not have been (or what could have been). I could be wrong, but otherwise I don't really understand tears of joy.

 

[~SnowAngel~]

woman sure is complicated :P

woman = singular
women = plural

I'd like to know why women have to cry to be happy... and why a woman has to take a group with her to use the restroom *_*...

They don't have to cry to be happy, and they're not all like that :o
for the 2nd thing, it can be a bit complicated XD but 2 major reasons is to not be alone, or to talk about something in a more privat place. (you can probably pick up on the difference if it's one or the other). you can read the comments here for more :3
You could probably make a short book about what goes on in there XD

I'm pretty convinced that people do not cry when they are happy. otherwise I don't really understand tears of joy.

it's kinda hard to explain x-x I cried when I was confessed to the first time lol :P I think it has to do with a long-held wish coming true :3 Then there's like a healing part of it where you could cry because of something but know it's good :o

 

[SSJCyberSonic]

hmmm do you think that note was meant to make your ask her out? I mean.. people could do that if they want to see a romance :P
as far as rejection, I can't say for much about people you've known for that long. (If you know there's boundaries, and you tried to go further..) anyways~ You should probably be glad she did say no, but it doesn't mean it can't happen much later :o
Girls do change their mind often XD Some aren't ready for a relationship, some don't want to settle for less or for the wrong reasons. annd some want to be sure about their feelings before taking it further. I mean, I wouldn't want a random person ask me out at school, but I don't want our friendship based on that idea either. (like it being a goal, or finding out then dropping it, idk)
Girls that say yes easily doesn't mean that you'll keep them forever. I'd rather hear a for-sure no than a half-hearted yes. It's really better for both of us in the long run :o Of course, we'd still be friends and all :3
I might start asking ppl "what do you think of me?" if I don't have any invitations sometime XD I think some ppl do have to resort to asking whether or not someone would be interested. I wouldn't do online dating tho.. that's kinda difficult for me x-x
But even in all of the glory of being single~ you could still better yourself for that person<3

Well in retrospect, one part of me is glad for her she didn't accept me. I'm kind of a screw up and really fail at life in general, while is busy with her masters degree in art, so being with me probably wouldn't only kept her down. I'm not really what you wold call "boyfriend material" and my clinical depression DOES make it hard for people to be around me.

As long as she's happy, I guess I ca live with it. Just wish the heartache would go away. ^^;

 

[Second_Flight]

http://www.sankakucomplex.com/2012/04/21/93-of-women-wont-compromise-on-mens-income/


japanesee womannn....

 

[Ghost Kitty~]

Hmm... i do believe there was a study... generally women are after money more and men are after looks...

Found something but who knows if this was what the teacher was talking about xD
http://glassvisage.hubpages.com/hub/What_men_and_women_want_-_psychologically

 

[musangbeku]

yep and I really mean it, this particular woman is really complicated x_x

thanks anw SnowAngel ;)