It might not be in my place to say, but it's best to not hold onto a grudge since it'll make you feel like crap afterwards. One should not forgive someone to relieve the person being forgiven but rather to relieve one's self of the burden. That's what I believe.Just thought I should put it out there.
My burning rage and passion is fuel for my success. Like that level in the Lost World in DKC 3 where you need to keep grabbing fuel tanks so you don't fall and die in your rocket, I need to keep finding more grudges.
[MENTION=5445]nawi[/MENTION]; this one looks less epic somehow. :P
In reality, I almost never can figure out when people apologize to me what they are sorry for until they spell it out when I ask. I simply expect things to go wrong, as that is natural, and so I don't normally bother remembering for long when someone screws something against my favor, unless it really strikes a never or something.